posted on Tuesday, January 27, 2015 @ 1/27/2015 09:22:00 PM
We are moving to the second month of the year already and I realized that I didn't get to update much this January as to what I predicted. Besides keeping myself busy at work, I've been busy with the brother wedding and packing of my stuffs to move house.
First and foremost, ALAHMDULILLAH, Give thanks to ALLAH S.W.T for making everything happen smoothly and we are indeed blessed with everything. My brother, Hazwan, has finally tied his knot with Fasehah last weekend. Another addition to the family. I have a new SISTER-IN-LAW now (insert that grin smiley)
As much as I can remember, I wasn't that emotional during my wedding. I’m know to be a hard strong feeling kinda woman, who controls her sadness but not happiness. I didn't cried that bad when I got married but when my brother got married, I actually felt so sad yet happiness that my brother is finally married.
ALHAMDULILLAH, in one lafaz, He was pronounce as a Husband. His responsibility didn't change towards me, my mom & dad but add in his responsibility of taking care of his wife. I believe he will be a great leader, Imam, Khalifah to his families and now, I feel like crying again.
Bear with me as I have been super emotional these few days.
I no longer woke up to see my brother sleeping outside. I no longer hear his loud irritating alarm clock that could wake the entire block up. I could hear the door open late in the night when he’s back from classes. I could no longer see him in the kitchen, taking all the food dishes, a Tupperware bottle of water and his snacks crackers. Above all, my mom sense this more than I do cause she’s a housewife and she’ll be at home to cook for us no matter how late we came back from work.
Oh well, in sadness, there’s happiness. Now that he got married, he will have someone taking care all of the above things. I am happy for you brother. May our marriage last until Jannah, In Sya Allah.
